WASHINGTON (AP) 鈥 A decade ago, then-Vice President Joe Biden shocked the political world and preempted his boss by suddenly declaring his support for gay marriage 鈥 one of the country's most contentious issues 鈥 on national television. But not everyone was surprised.
A small group had attended a private fundraiser with Biden weeks earlier in Los Angeles where he disclosed not only his approval but his firm conclusion about the future of same-sex marriage.
He predicted, 鈥淭hings are changing so rapidly, it鈥檚 going to become a political liability in the near term for someone to say, 鈥業 oppose gay marriage.'"
"Mark my words. And my job 鈥 our job 鈥 is to keep this momentum rolling to the inevitable.鈥
The day that Biden envisioned may have arrived. He plans on Tuesday , passed by in Congress, to protect gay unions 鈥 even if the Supreme Court should revisit, as some fear or hope, its .
Biden's signature will burnish his legacy as a champion of equality at a time when the LGBTQ community is anxious to safeguard legal changes from that has used incendiary rhetoric, particularly against transgender people.
鈥淚t is a historic moment and a long time coming,鈥 said Bruce Reed, the White House deputy chief of staff and a longtime adviser to Biden. 鈥淚t鈥檚 all the more inspiring in light of what the country has been put through in recent years, and what courts have threatened of late.鈥
If there's a feeling of anticlimax, it's because the politics of marriage have shifted as dramatically as Biden predicted. Although the issue is not universally embraced 鈥 a majority of Republicans in the House and Senate voted against the legislation 鈥 it's
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That wasn't the case a decade ago.
Chad Griffin, who led the American Foundation for Equal Rights and the Human Rights Campaign, said it was common for lawmakers to tell him, "You know privately I鈥檓 with you, and you know so-and-so in my family is gay or lesbian, but politically, I can鈥檛 be out there.鈥
Activists' frustration extended to President Barack Obama. He had made some changes, such as that prevented gay people from serving openly in the military, but had stopped short of embracing marriage equality despite lawsuits that were forcing the issue to the forefront.
As Obama's vice president, Biden shared the same stance. In 1996, he had voted for the Defense of Marriage Act, which prevented federal recognition of same-sex unions.
In April 2012, Biden attended the fundraiser at the Los Angeles home of a married gay couple 鈥 Michael Lombardo, an HBO executive, and Sonny Ward, an architect 鈥 and their children. When it was time for the question-and-answer session, Griffin decided he shouldn't sidestep the issue.
鈥淲hen you came in tonight, you met Michael and Sonny and their two beautiful kids," he said to Biden. "And I wonder if you can just sort of talk in a frank, honest way about your own personal views as it relates to marriage equality.鈥
Biden responded as Griffin had requested 鈥 frankly and personally.
鈥淎ll you got to do is look in the eyes of those kids," he said. "And no one can wonder, no one can wonder whether or not they are cared for and nurtured and loved and reinforced. And folks, what鈥檚 happening is, everybody is beginning to see it."
Just over two weeks later, Biden was on and host David Gregory asked whether he supported gay marriage. Biden said the issue came down to 鈥渁 simple proposition.鈥
鈥淲ho do you love? And will you be loyal to the person you love?鈥 Biden said. 鈥淎nd that's what people are finding out is what all marriages, at their root, are about, whether they're marriages of lesbians, or gay men, or heterosexuals.鈥
Biden said the president, not him, 鈥渟ets the policies.鈥 But he said gay couples should have 鈥渁ll the civil rights, all the civil liberties."
Gautam Raghavan was leading LGBTQ outreach for the White House at the time. On the Sunday that the interview aired, he and his husband were hosting some friends for brunch, and the TV was on in the background.
鈥淲e were watching it and thinking, 鈥極h my God, I can鈥檛 believe that just happened,鈥" Raghavan said. He can't remember what they ate that morning, but 鈥淚鈥檓 sure we had a mimosa afterward.鈥
It was in carefully choreographed Washington.
For Biden, "all politics is personal," said Reed, who was Biden鈥檚 chief of staff in the vice president鈥檚 office. 鈥淎nd I think that鈥檚 what prompted him to speak his mind."
Not everyone was pleased. Obama was left trailing a step behind his vice president, and three days later did an interview to disclose his own support for gay marriage. He said Biden had gotten 鈥渁 little over his skis" but there were no hard feelings.
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At the time of Biden's interview, Jim Obergefell was living in Ohio with his partner, John Arthur, who had recently been diagnosed with the deadly disease known as Lou Gehrig's disease, or ALS.
Marriage was always considered out of the question, Obergefell said, but Biden's comments caught his attention. The following year, after the Supreme Court ruled that the Defense of Marriage Act was unconstitutional, Obergefell proposed to Arthur.
They married in Maryland, where it was legal, but their home state of Ohio would not recognize their union. Although Arthur died in 2013, their legal battle continued to the Supreme Court. Obergefell met Biden for the first time in 2015.
鈥淚 just remember walking up to him and he hugged me and the first words out of his mouth were condolences for the loss of my husband," he said.
The Supreme Court soon legalized gay marriage nationwide in a decision known as Obergefell v. Hodges.
Although the issue was widely considered to be settled, it resurfaced last June when the court's conservative majority overturned Roe v. Wade, which legalized abortion in 1973. , Justice Clarence Thomas wrote that the court other precedents as well, including the Obergefell ruling, raising concern that could be rolled back.
Legislation to revive the right to abortion was politically impossible. But marriage might be a different matter, and supporters believed they could rally enough Republican votes to sidestep a filibuster in the Senate. They were right.
Obergefell, however, is not experiencing a sense of satisfaction.
鈥淥ur right to marry was affirmed by the Supreme Court. And in a perfect world, we would never have to worry about losing that,鈥 he said. "We now know that rights that people counted on and expected are no longer safe.鈥
Instead of feeling happy, he said, 鈥淚'm on edge.鈥
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It's a common sentiment right now in the face of political attacks over LGBTQ issues.
Gov. Ron DeSantis, R-Fla., signed legislation to talk about sexual orientation or gender identity in schools. In Texas, GOP Gov. Greg Abbott wants state child welfare investigators to consider gender-affirming care as
Protesters, sometimes armed, have shown up at events where drag queens read to children. Five people were at a gay club in Colorado last month. The suspect has been
鈥淭he story of civil rights in America is always evolving,鈥 said Raghavan, who now runs the White House personnel office. 鈥淲e should never assume that we鈥檙e done with something because we got a good court decision or a piece of legislation.鈥
Biden has taken steps to safeguard rights for transgender people, such as reinstating anti-discrimination provisions eliminated by President Donald Trump. Biden also ended the ban on transgender people serving in the military. Transportation Secretary is the first openly gay Cabinet member, and Biden's assistant health secretary, is the first transgender person to win Senate confirmation to an executive post.
Sarah McBride, a transgender state senator from Biden's home state of Delaware, said it鈥檚 a comfort 鈥渇or so many of us, who feel frightened or vulnerable or alone, to know that the leader of this country, the leader of the free world, not only sees us but embraces us."
McBride worked for Biden's eldest son, Beau, during his campaigns for Delaware attorney general, and she came out as transgender in 2012.
Before Beau Biden died from brain cancer in 2015, he helped pass Delaware laws that legalized gay marriage and banned discrimination over gender identity. McBride said the experience deepened the elder Biden's own commitment to these issues and 鈥渉e's carrying on Beau鈥檚 legacy."
As last month's midterm elections approached, the White House played host to Dylan Mulvaney, a Broadway performer who has chronicled her gender transition on TikTok, to talk about transgender issues with Biden.
Conservative critics were apoplectic. Ben Shapiro, a popular commentator, called the interview 鈥渕aybe the most disturbing clip in presidential history.鈥
But Biden, much like he has in the past, suggested that acceptance was possible 鈥 maybe even likely. Asked by Mulvaney how leaders can better advocate for transgender people, Biden responded that it was important to be 鈥渟een with people like you.鈥
鈥淧eople fear what they don鈥檛 know. They fear what they don鈥檛 know,鈥 he said. 鈥淎nd when people realize, individuals realize, 鈥極h, this is what they鈥檙e telling me to be frightened of, this is the problem.鈥 I mean, people change their minds.鈥
